Household Spending Plans

Much of the time it is up to the woman of a household to take care of the spending plan (AKA Budget) and immediate finances. The task of determining the monthly cost allocation for activities as well as cooking, cleaning, and food shopping. In other instances a women with children has to take care of these duties while also working part of full time. 

For a household that is not financially planned, this situation can create chaos if not managed. When kids are involved in the mix, the need for a spending plan is much more greater as resources tend to become depleted quite easily. By setting easy and comfortable money targets for your family, which can save you both time and money. This will enable the family household to run easier and smoother, therefore planning ahead of time is essential. For example grocery shopping in bulk will not only save you time and money, but it will also save you in terms of preparation. You will be able to make meals in large batches, then freeze them for whenever you need a quick meal. This allows you a piece of mind that you can always have something ready for last minute occasions. 

Another large impact of a family's costs is the entertainment expense. When you have kids they have a need to be stimulated all the time. Instead of spending money on going to the movies, buying them unnecessary toys, and expensive fun parks, enroll them in sports teams or some type of lesson that they are interested in. Go to the library and borrow books on core life skills. Yes, this will cost some money but in the long run it is much less than the other types of entertainment. Your kids will learn a new skill that will enable them to keep preoccupied & content even they are not at their actual lesson or team practice. They will be able to practice on their own and get better at something not involving a video game or TV. 

Setting a spending plan for your family needs to be customised to the amount of money that is going in and out of your household every month. If you are trying to save up for something then something else must be given up. This really allows you to weigh what is important to you, short-term satisfaction or long-term goals. 

If we know some of these tips, this will set up a household to be the most efficient as possible. When a household is efficient, it opens up the much-needed time for family and friends to enjoy each other's company. Creating successful habits can allow your family to become closer knit because you will value the time you can spend with each other.

What can we learn from wealthy people?

The truth is, everyone craves to be wealthy. We secretly wish we could be like the wealthy. We look at them with a combination of admiration, envy and wonder. What exactly did they do to be so blessed? 

Yes, the super-wealthy rule the world. They live in the biggest mansions and own the choicest properties. They ride the most luxurious cars and marry the most beautiful women. When they speak, their words are carried by news media around the globe. 

The super-wealthy are abound in commerce, politics, entertainment, sports, IT, finance, oil and gas, to mention a few. In short, they abound in every sphere of human endeavour. 

The following names, not in any particular order, readily come to mind when we talk about the super-wealthy: Bernard Arnault, Bill Gates, Jack Ma, Elon Musk, Jay Z, Beyonce, Warren Buffett, Oprah Winfrey and Jeff Bezos. 

Among the super-wealthy you can count Buddhists, Christians, Hindus, Muslims, non-believers, Blacks, Whites, Browns, mixed races, men, women, and people from all continents. 

What exactly then separates the super-wealthy from the poor? If not some undue advantage in opportunities, skin color, religion, intellect, industry, talent, place and time of birth, what?

Here they are: 

Focus their Attention

The wealthy pay undivided attention to nurturing and multiplying their wealth. For instance, Bill Gates attributes his wealth not so much to what he makes as Microsoft's co-founder, but to the excellent work of his portfolio manager, Michael Larson. On the other hand non wealthy spend their money on trying to look rich. In short, the poor tries to copy the "Millionaire Next Door." To be wealthy, be wealth conscious and focus attention to not just making money but how to grow it and make your money work harder for you. 

Productive with their Time 

Time is the most precious and scarcest resource. As economists say, its supply is inelastic. You can't store or delay it, you can't stop it, and you can't increase it. Effective use of time requires a mindset that is productive. The super-wealthy use time well. While time is an abstract, how you use it is a mindset. Regardless of wealth, we all have the same amount of this most invaluable resource? From birth until death we have equal amount of time daily: 24 hours. You will be wealthy to the extent to which you judiciously use this limited resource. 

Focus On One Thing

To be wealthy, develop FOCUS. Focus on one thing at a time. While the wealthy focus on one thing at a time. Whenever the wealthy pursues an end, he burns his boat and never looks back. Take for an example, Jeff Bezos. He focused on ECommerce, Bill Gate on computer coding, and Jay Z on entertainment.

Think Big 

If you look closely, all the wealthy think big. Jeff Bezos is not just building an E-Commerce company, but the most customer centric company on the planet. Bill Gates did not just go out to build Microsoft, but the biggest software company in the world. Not to be outdone, Mark Zuckerberg's empire now includes Facebook, Instagram, Whatsapp and Messenger. Thinking big is about being methodical, seeing the bigger picture of "what could be." It's about having an uncanny vision of the future and setting your sail accordingly in the direction of that vision without being distracted by other "opportunities" along the way. It's about saying "No" to a thousand things so that you can say "Yes" to the "one thing" that matters to you. So thinking BIG is one of the hallmarks of the wealthy. Really, why think small if you can think BIG by focusing on one grandiose end at a time? 

Proximity 

Don King, the boxing promoter, once told Dennis P. Kimbro, the co-author of Think and Grow Rich: A Black Choice, his plan for becoming a billionaire was "by hanging around billionaires, learning all they know." So hatch a plan and find a way to rub shoulders with the wealthy. By so doing, you'll be sucked into the world of the wealthy. This will reprogram your mind. Hanging around the wealthy is not just about networking, but it's about getting close enough to be mentored by the wealthy. What can you do to enter the radar of the wealthy? Write a book, start a podcast or a YouTube Channel to mention three. You can't be wealthy unless you reprogram your mind to think like the wealthy. The easiest way to do that is to enter into the world of the wealthy through the back door - through what you do. 

Work Hard and Smart 

Most of the time, the things associated with the wealthy are Gulf Stream Jets, Super Yachts, Golf Courses, Ocean Blue Islands, Hot Air Balloons and mansions designed in heaven. These are what you see at the front end. But peel the curtain a little and what you'll see at the back end is hard work. Many believe hard work does not matter in today's digital world where you can "set everything up to work on autopilot." Beware; nothing could be further from the truth. Do you know that Jeff Bezos used to kneel to sort parcels when Amazon first started in 1995? Till date he exhorts his people "It's Always Day One", meaning maintaining the spirit of entrepreneurship of a start up. If you're not willing to work hard, then perish the thought of getting wealthy. In his Good to Great, author Jim Collins wrote about the concept of the "flywheel." That's what hard work is all about. No wealth is ever created by standing with hands akimbo. 

Keeps Learning and Growing

Learning in this context is not about amassing many PhDs and MBAs in assorted disciplines. Learning is not about endless webinars. It's about getting personal coaches to make you better and performing at your peak in all dimensions of life. It may interest you to know some super-wealthy started out with no to little money but through a dint of hard work, learnt to overcome the bad hand that fate dealt them at birth. One well documented example is John H. Johnson of Ebony Magazine fame who in his day rose to become the 400th richest American. 

In his book, Succeeding Against the Odds, he stated that his family was not only poor, but they were the "poorest of the poor." John H. Johnson learnt to speak despite being born with a stammer; he learnt to believe in himself despite being born into extreme poverty, he learnt to sell and ended up buying the insurance company that employed him. 

So don't blame your start in life, just keep learning and wealth will be within your grasp. 

Source: Paul Uduck

Financial Independence for Women

For security reasons Ladies, it is important for us to have the knowledge about how to make financial decisions. 

Facts that many of us choose to be single, and the divorce rates are getting higher should underline the more important reasons why we need to equip ourselves with complete financial knowledge to survive in our life. 

We must know that: 

We cannot live from month to month. It is important to save some part of our income, whether from our partners or from our own salary. 

We must have our own personal account instead of a join account with our spouse. It will increase our self confidence as well. Having a personal account will be useful when something happens to our spouse, as our personal account will give us more flexibility and authority than our joint account. 

We must have our own investment and retirement account. This will help protect our finances when the breadwinner of the family turns his heart against the family. 

We must have our own credit card. The best time to have a credit card is when you need it the least, when you can pay on time. A credit card will be very useful under urgent circumstances, when you do not have enough cash on hand. Although we may think that you may not need a credit card, it is recommended to have one for urgency. 

We must get involved in monthly family finances. Almost all of us have something to eliminate, by working together with our partner, as a collective, we could save more than before. 

Having enough money in our savings will give us the courage to leave an unpleasant job or a horrible marriage. 

What should always be remembered is being able to manage a family and personal financial does not mean that you can forget your destiny as a woman. 

To build a happy and harmonious family, women and men are equal, we should not compete against each other. 

Financial Success for Women

Truth Bomb Ladies- what we earn is mostly what we spend! 

Many of us spend our money without a budget and then complain when our finances begin to dwindle. The habits that we have created within ourselves with regards to how we spend our money can break or make us. The issue we have created is that we have the problem of spending within our means. Many find ourselves in a tight corner just because we couldn't say no to that flashy car or the expensive handbag we know we should not even be looking at, never mind talk of buying. 

Just like many bury ourselves deep into debt just to satisfy that yearn that has nothing to add to our personal finance or to our life for that matter. Many calculate what they spend at the end of each month and wonder where our money had gone and even what we had done with that thing we should not have bought but bought anyway and is not lying unused in a box in our room. 

Casual spending is not a friend to anyone and it can easily put you into trouble. It is something that can land you in bankruptcy left with nothing but the useless purchase of a life time that has no value to add to our life. There are a few things we need to check when determining our spending habit. 

These are: We need to see the wrong in what we are doing. We need not hide behind ignorance of our actions. We should know that it is not going to help us if we do not find solution to it. If you are in debt already, we need to pay it all off and then develop another healthier way of dealing with your finances. 

We need to know how much we spend at any particular time. Be conscious of the amount of money that is being paid for any thing you are buying so as to help you determine if that amount is worth it or if that thing is worth having. You need to map out ways to evaluate what you are spending each month and why you are over spending if you are. Know what you need and calculate what you can get when you turn away from that thing that you want but do not really need. 

Re-evaluate your lifestyle now. Invent new ways of handling your finances. This is something that will give you a new meaning into why and how you are spending what you are not supposed to. Get a new lifestyle that is healthier for your pocket. Design some kind of specification on the spending decision you make. Be careful with how you dish out your credit card and what you use it to buy. It is super easy to over spend when you know you can get it on credit. 

We as women have problems with how we spend out money, now is the time to learn to put a spending plan together, this can help in our day to day purchases so that we can see the error of what we do as clear as possible and this will be the first step towards a better habit.

We can support you with creating a spending plan and other financial success habits so you too can become financially fabulous. 

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Relationships and Our Finances - Why New Couples Fight and Solutions to Solve

It is common for new couples to fight over money. In fact, research has proved that one of the most common sources of misunderstanding among couples stems from financial problems. There is no such thing as easy money. Individuals work hard to earn enough for their daily expenses, to pay out bills and to survive day to day living. Before tying the knot or moving in with your partner, it is important that couples understand some of the reasons why partners may come to fight over finance and more importantly why budgeting needs to become an essential part of the relationship. 

Spending too much. In every couple, one will always spend more than the other. Stereotypically it's the women. However, there are also men who love to splurge on cars, tools, sports and so on. The difference is, one wants to spend this much and the other doesn't. Now of course neither want to compromise their wants or needs. This can quickly cause an argument. So before settling down, couples should be ready to make major adjustments with their spending. Both need to realise that in marriage compromise is a must, especially when there are more important bills to pay like the mortgage, car, and possibly even baby preparations. 

Credit Card Bills. Credit card bills can sometimes seem like the end of the world in a relationship. Avoid them all together and use cash instead. Fights are generally a given when a credit card bill arrives. That whopping figure - the night when the husband took his friends out for rounds of drinks, the new kitchen appliances she bought, the new suit, a collector's toy, etc. They all add up and it can be very hard to work out who purchased what and when at the end of every month. New couples tend to think that just because they are married, the better half will tolerate the shopping splurges and shouted rounds of drinks at the bar. But this is not the case and more often than not, they end up fighting. So avoid the fight all together and pay in cash instead that way you will avoid the monthly credit card bill you both dread. 

The other option is to have your own credit cards and agree collectively how to align on spending and making payments, outside of a joint card for household bills and expenses.

Envy. Money and Envy tend to go hand in hand and when your married this situation can be even more intense. Some couples get jealous when they find out that their neighbour has just bought a new luxury car. They feel that they need to have one or else, their marriage won't be as good as the neighbours. So they order one out of impulse. The results are destructive. Shopping for luxury items on an impulse can result to financial turmoil. This ruins a couple's chance to enjoy a wonderful future. They end up paying for something that they do not really need. Throwing away money they could have used the to save up for their kids' education or a magnificent holiday getaway to rekindle the love. 

Conjugal debt. Some couples fail to discuss individual debts before settling down. These could be student loans, car loans, etc. When the issues arise, whether it be early or later in the relationship expect a major argument among couples. This stems solely from a lack of communication. So it is essential that couples, even before they are married, learn that open communication amongst each other is the sole key to a happy long lasting relationship. 

It is very important for couples to discuss their individual financial statuses before they get into living together/married. People work hard for their money, and with every couple one will always work harder than the other, the same way that one will always be a bigger spender than the other. But there's no such thing as easy money or an easy marriage/relationship. So to avoid heated discussions and arguments over finances, couples are advised to lay their cards on the table before tying the knot. Going into a joint spousal relationship unaware of circumstances, confused or scared to communicate is a recipe for disaster. 

Do You Have the Right to More Energy & More Money?

Thoreau said, "The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it." 

What if you came to the realisation that you are, indeed, exchanging your energy for your life? Would that change some of how you spend your time, i.e., your energy? I think it might. So, wouldn't it be wise to make sure that as often as possible, any energy that you're expending on an activity or expending on a person, you make into a positive exchange rather than a negative exchange? 

Let me ask you a question: 

Do you believe you have a right to more positive energy? 

If you don't believe you have a right to positive things, which includes positive energy, then I'm not sure you're going to find much value in this article. 

Let's flip for a moment to thinking about finances. Your sense of whether you have a right to positive energy is related to your sense that you have a right to ask for certain amounts of money when you are negotiating. The reason I'm bringing this up here is because when you value yourself (and the energy of your life), you will be better able to charge appropriately for your time, services, and products.

I recommend reading Suze Orman's book, entitled Women and Money, Owning the Power to Control Your Destiny. When I first got this book a couple of years ago, I read almost the whole thing in one evening. The title of chapter 4 is, "You Are Not on Sale." In this chapter she discusses how women in particular devalue themselves. She states,

If you under-value what you do, the world under-values who you are, and when you under-value who you are the world under-values what you do.  

This is a big message for all of us. There is extensive research available about how women continue to under-value what we have to offer much more so than men do. For example, a very interesting book was published a while back, titled Women Don’t Ask: The High Cost of Avoiding Negotiation and Positive Strategies for Change (Princeton University Press, 2003), was so influential that Fortune Magazine named it as one of the 75 smartest business books of all time. The book also was a Finalist for the Independent Publisher Book Awards.

Two academic women examined women professors and how they start out with the same amount of education and the same amount of experience as men, yet over time the women are always paid less and always ask for less. Apparently, men keep asking for more and they get more. The authors also looked at what it ends up costing women over their lifetime. It is not costing you $10,000 over your lifetime; it is costing you closer to half a million dollars. So, not only do you need to know how to ask...but you have to recognise your VALUE. 

Now, the second question I'd like to ask you in this article is: 

Whose responsibility is it for you to have more positive energy? 

This is clearly tied to the valuing of who you are and what you do. Again, as women, we tend to think people will notice what a good job we do and they will, of course, reward us with money and promotions and all kinds of things. And I will bet if I took a little poll here among the readers of this article, we might all find out that's not exactly how it works. We must truly value what we do and then know how to ask for the appropriate compensation for that. 

You do have some control over your time, energy, and compensation and I believe it's your responsibility to exert that control. You have to know what you have that is of value and you have to let other people know that as well. 

In all ways, you want to explore the ways you can maximise your positive energy - and the return on that energy. When you do, you're maximising your life.

Article source: Meggin Mckintosh

Romance and Our Finances

For perhaps as long as love has been a part of human society, currency or trade have also played their parts; the two often cross paths, for better or worse and make for an interesting look at two of the most highly sought after fundamentals of our world. 

Buying love with money: Phrasing the idea in such blunt terms is often a little off putting for many individuals who believe that love isn't for sale. A gift given from person to another is not always the result of great expense, or in some cases any monetary expense at all, however in a world where the phrase time is money exists how can one eliminate the idea that a certain amount of affection or approval has just been, for all intents and purposes, purchased? It can be difficult to determine a person's feelings for another where money is involved. Most people would agree that gifts are a healthy expression of individuals' feelings, but would at the same time be offended by the idea that love can be purchased for the right price. If we look back not too many years ago, at a world where women in particular, though not exclusively, found that without the aid of a husband or relative they were nearly unable to support themselves it is easy to understand how such feelings could indeed be purchased. 

Considering the level of poverty so many people shared, the idea that a person could break free from such living conditions through the generosity (or sometimes just lust,) of another person would have extreme and lasting emotional consequences. In many cases, a prosperous marriage meant not only that a woman would never go hungry again, but that her family would also be provided for. While in some of these examples real love may have originated without the involvement of wealth; many of them were simply a trade, beautiful daughter or son, in exchange for financial security. In some cases this would be referred to as lust not love, but for many people the overwhelming sense of desire can easily be perceived as just such an emotion. Where some of these relationships may have begun with a pretty face or attractive body, the desire to take care of and provide for an individual suggests feelings that run a little deeper than pure desire. Though the idea may not be particularly appealing to many, it does beg the question: can love be bought? 

Lust for sale? Amoral to some and illegal in many places the concept of buying a little physical action from a person for a set price is one of the oldest topics of debate throughout the world. Whether you believe it wrong or right, or simply don't think about it, purchasing desire has been widely available in every country throughout the world as far back as any records can show. While lust does not share many of the same feelings with love it has certain powerful qualities that have driven many men and women to reach deep into their pocket books. In this case the person making the purchase is unlikely to invoke feelings of love from the person they are paying, but is it possible that some emotional attachment, some facsimile of love will come with it? Though it might be in many ways false love, the illusion can be extremely convincing. This is example of just how convincing can be seen in the well known gold digger, though perhaps not a very flattering term to use the concept is quite accurate: a person who marries are aligns themselves with another person who has the means to care for them, in many cases more than care for, providing substantial wealth. 

Though some might say there is a difference between a prostitute and a person who marries for money, it can be difficult to know where the line is drawn. On the other hand, a person who is attracted to another, at least in part, because that person could provide a comfortable, even lavish lifestyle, can hardly be blamed for finding the prospect appealing. Is it wrong to be attracted to a person for their money? Is it wrong to use your wealth in an attempt to attract others? These questions are ages old and yet still without definite answers from almost every society. Putting legalities aside, for most reasonable people it presents quite problem: is it fair to judge others for how they wish to live their lives? Most would say no. On the other hand the idea of selling sex for money has for many years been associated with other illegal and sometimes dangerous activities that tend take place in the same locations. Amoral or not, it is a true reflection of our growth as a society that these desires often outweigh logic; whether for or against, the emotional response is usually one sided and without thought to the oppositions' feelings or opinions. 

Money and relationships: It has been recorded numerous times that one of the most common reasons for couples splitting up is finance. Some attempt to avoid this issue by keeping separate bank accounts and treating the relationship, in terms of money, more like a roommate situation than a romantic one. In other situations one person entirely supports another financially while the other remains at home, perhaps attending school, pursing a creative profession or even more commonly to raise a family. However you and your partner have decided to address your financial decisions during stressful moments problems can be difficult to avoid. A few tips to keep in mind when dealing with this issue:

• Financial difficulty cannot always be attributed to one or both people; in certain situations it can be extremely difficult to deal with poverty or limited funds, remember not to place blame simply because the situation is frustrating. 
• If trying to cut back on overspending, remember to cut on equal sides; it can be a stressful endeavor to eliminate certain excess from your life, remember that your partner feels the same way about their own. 
• However terrible the situation, try to find things to laugh about with each other, it won't be easy but it can help to create a feeling of unity. 
• If one person is supporting another and this situation met with approval on both sides, don't throw blame out simply because financial problems have occurred by reminding a person that they are not bringing an income into the relationship, especially for those that accomplish a great deal at home, though it might not be paid work, it can be extremely hurtful and will not be forgotten even if the situation improves. 
• Do not try to hide financial problems from your significant other; often these issues are much better to face as a solid unit and a great deal of stress can be eliminated by sharing the burden.
• Forcing your partner to bear the positive attitude so that you can continue to panic or sulk is also unhelpful; regardless of your usual dynamic, try to be strong for your partner in these unhappy times. 
• When possible, if nothing can be done at the time to correct the situation, seek distraction with your partner, putting distance, at least temporarily between your relationship and finances. 

Will the ties between money and love ever come to an end? Most likely not, as long as our society continues to include both aspects in it. To keep one from injuring the other requires patience, understanding and at times, accepting what you don't understand. The long history for both weaves an intricate web of human development that is still just as alluring and confusing today as it was thousands of years ago.

Article Source: https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Alison_Sardelli/203131

Financial Success Habits and Our Old Beliefs

Are you struggling with your money goals and your finance goals? I think a lot of people are these days, especially with the current economic climate right? Why do we all struggle with these goals to achieve in life? Why do we grapple with issues around accomplishing a goal in terms of our finances? In my experience, this is all deep in our subconscious and goes back to our childhood and throughout our teen and adult life. 

In the past couple of years, I have been blessed to see some of the most successful business men and women in the world. I have sat for hours as they speak about how they struggled to overcome their own struggles with their money goals and finance goals. I have listened to speakers who slept on the streets, slept in train stations etc... to conquer their money goals and finally learn how to set life goals! I have seen the pain in their eyes and the emotional attachment that this period still has with them. 

Why do people go through periods of struggle with their money and finance goals? Well, when you think about it, as kids we are very much subjected to a lot of "myths" about money and how it is viewed by society. Have you ever heard some of these common myths before... 

• Money is the root of all evil 
• Getting rich is a matter of luck or fate 
• Having a lot of money will make me less spiritual or pure 
• Money will change me 
• Money won't make me happy 
• I'm too young to be rich
• I'm too old to start making money
• I don't deserve or not worthy of money 
• I'm already quite comfortable
• I don't need to push myself 

I bet these sayings are familiar to the majority of you? We struggle with our money goals and finance goals because we have been so conditioned by phrases like "I'm not made of money" or "Money doesn't grow on trees", that it is inherent in our subconscious. It is almost like a disease and we don't even realize it! I have been very lucky to attend various seminars on this subject that have really brought this to my conscious mind. When something is conscious, we can train the brain so that success in our money goals and finance goals becomes habitual. 

After attending seminars, reading books and being more aware of these myths and negative stories we have all heard about, I began to realise that this severely impacts our goals to achieve in life, in such a negative way. I then started to see things differently and made an observation that many people I have spoken to lately, have agreed with. What we watch on TV has a big impact on our money goals and finance goals! 

I grew up in the "Disney" era, where my beliefs on money stemmed from my childhood and romantic movies and books. I would live happily ever after, Prince Charming would always look after me. My childhood toys were Barbie having a fabulous life with Ken. Outside of Barbie dolls, I had toys such as a pram to push my kids in, a toy cooker, plastic tea set and a toy convertible car and caravan that Ken bought me. I had make-up, shoes and princess dress-up outfits, a plastic girl's head for practicing hairstyles.

Growing older, I continue to buy these "so called toys" into my adult life- clothes, shoes, handbags, expensive cars, designer make-up, frequent holidays and high self maintenance activities. I spiralled into a lot of debt.

Fast forward paying off the credit cards, loans and eventually getting myself out of debt, I started to then seriously focus on my financial habits and following others. Once you start to model and try to replicate successful people, you see things with new eyes. I often speak so highly of the seminars and the business speakers that I have been privileged to see live. After spending three full days at an event on "money goals" 3 years ago, someone once remarked that I was in a "cult". It made me think, perhaps I have been in a "cult" with my money goals and finance goals before I began to see the light that the successful gurus have shown me. 

So I guess its time to debunk some of the myths above and leave you with some new belief systems to mull over: 

1) Making money doesn't restrict freedom, it PROMOTES freedom 

2) To master money, I must MANAGE money 

3) Wealthy and successful people aren't smarter than me, they just have better money management Financial HABITS 

Some people think that the concept of changing your mindset is all "mumbo jumbo". 

I beg to differ. I think that if we begin to look at things with new eyes, that we can really start to focus on our money goals and finance goals. In fact, you can focus on new ways to achieve your goals in life! So what are your new money associations? 

Fill in the blank: Money is__________ 

Only 20% of people set goals. 

The other 80% think they have goals... but these are only wishes! 

Are you open to some different perspectives on how to set and achieve goals?

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Where to start when Investing in the Stock Market

Investing in the share market has never been as easy as it is today thanks to share market platforms where everyday investors can invest as little as $10 at a time. Compare that to investing through a share broker where fees make this uneconomic unless you are able to invest a few thousand dollars at a time. Problem with this is that unless one had tens of thousands of dollars to invest then diversification where money is invested in a variety of companies is out of the question. 

The solution to this is Index funds, where your money is pooled with those of other investors. The Index fund tracks indices such as the S&P500, Nasdaq, Dow Jones, FTSE, ASX, Dax etc. Expense ratio fees are low and the benefit is that you don't have to pay buy and sell fees to an advisor every time an organisation leaves or joins an Index. 

Your money is also now invested in a variety of companies and industry types for diversification and for risk mitigation.

Sharesies is a popular trading platform in New Zealand but is certainly not the only one; Hatch, Kernel, and Invest Now are others. In the US, Robin Hood and Webull are popular trading platforms. In Australia Raiz, Spaceship, CommSec are popular and in the UK you can open a Stocks and Shares ISA which allows you to have a tax efficient trading account.

There are so many benefits of getting involved in the share market in this way with the main one being that it improves your financial literacy. It is all very well just reading books of a financial nature but knowledge comes from action otherwise what you may have learned on paper is just information. 

The basic rules of investing still need to be adhered to such as not placing all of your eggs in the one basket and investing according to your goals. If you require the money in the short-term then investing in growth stocks which are high return but with higher risk is not a suitable investment because chances are that the stock price will be down at the time when you need the money.

Micro investing is an excellent way to get involved in the share market. It helps to build your financial know-how, not to mention your wealth. 

Femvestorsglobal supports you in all areas of financial education as we help you with the basic fundamentals of investing, we give you everything you need so you have both the confidence and courage to start investing yourself.

So what are you waiting for?

Ladies- What are your Investment Goals?

One of the most important aspects of investing your money is your investment goals.

The first question you ask when looking to invest your money, whether in a new pair of shoes or an investment type, is what outcome you want from your investment. Just as the shoes can provide either heels for a cocktail party or comfortable work shoes, the investment can provide income (such as dividends, rental income and/or profits), an increase in value (which can include property price increases), emergency funds, or a combination of these. 

The main investment objectives are: 

• Capital Preservation-being there when you want it 

• Capital Appreciation-increasing in value 

• Income-paying out money during ownership 

Today we'll look at combining objectives. We all want the best of everything, so naturally we ask why we can't get more than one of these major objectives from an investment. As a general rule, if you are focusing on one objective, then you will sacrifice a little of the return toward that objective when you throw in a second objective. 

This is much like the search for the perfect little black dress that we want to serve two purposes; we want to be able to wear to it work but we also want to wear it to cocktail parties. If it is too formal, then we won't be able to dress it down, but if it is too causal, then we won't be able to dress it up, however, some dresses will meet both objectives. If we focus on one objective more than the other, we sacrifice the goal of it providing the perfect outfit for each type of occasion. The good news is that like the little black dress, there are definitely investments that both increase in value, and provide income at the same time, particularly when an investor considers the overall price trend of an investment class before buying and selling it. 

Some types of investments that are known to pay out decent income are high yield bonds, real estate, commodities. These investments normally pay out the highest income during riskier times, because they have to make higher payouts to attract investors for higher risks. 

This also typically coincides with the low end of the price range for that particular type of investment. When an investor buys such an asset at the low end of the price range, she will receive capital appreciation once the investment increases in value back to more normal valuations. In the meantime, she will receive the income from that investment, so it is meeting two objectives. 

Once again, investment objectives are like most other things in our lives; we begin our search with the outcome we want. 

Begin with first knowing the main thing that you want from an investment; for it to be there when you want it, grow in value or pay out income. 

Understanding and considering your investment goals is one of the first steps toward successful investing that everyone must take. 

Investing For Beginners

Why does investing seem so complicated? 

The number of ways you can invest is mind boggling. The worst part is that investment world uses a different terminology. If you are new to investing it won't be long before you encounter words like "moving averages, average weighted price, open interest, futures and option, book closure" etc. Let me stop before I put you to sleep. All you really want to do is to put your money in something where it will be safe and grow. Is that too much to ask for? 

Why are there so many different investing alternatives? 

Are they really different! If you have ever been to a grocery store you will see bottles of different cleaning products, most of which will be labeled "new!" "Improved!" or even better "New and Improved!" But no matter what they call it, when its all said and done these bottles are filled with nothing more than SOAP, same as they have always been. 

Investments are no different. At first glance it may appear that all these mutual funds, Exchange Traded Funds, Index Funds, unit trust, REIT's, options, futures are unique and require encyclopedic knowledge to understand the technicalities. But more often than not what you are looking at is nothing more than just an old way of investing in a new bottle. 

Understanding investing in simple terms: 

In a family tree you will have a male and a female at top of the list from where all the other branches came out. Similarly in investments at the top you have stock and bond. All other forms of investments are some form or other of these two. And their differences can be spotted just as easily as you can distinguish a man from a woman. 

What are stocks and bonds and what is the difference between the two? 

I will compare stocks to a flashy car; all powerful snazzy, attractive, dangerous, accident prone and bonds to the family car; nothing much to look at, slow, always takes you where you are going, always there for you. 

Some basic traits of the two: 

• People investing in stocks want to see a return on their money, bond holders want to make sure the return of their money. 
• Stocks are about taking risk and bonds are about avoiding risk. 
• Stocks offer unlimited upside potential, bonds offer limited downside potential. 
• Stocks mean ownership and bonds denote loaning. So we can say one is an ownership investment and the other is a loan investment. 
• The difference between an ownership investment and a loan investment is not too hard to understand. The differences are obvious once you know what to look for. 
• An ownership investment does not have an ending date. (When you buy a stock it never becomes due, you have to sell it to get cash) 
• Loan investments almost always have a due date (e.g. your fixed deposits with the bank). An Ownership investments rarely promise a specific return. A stock price can go up 10 times or remain static for years. 
• Loan investments nearly always promise a fixed return. A 12 month deposit certificate promises 2% return. 

Third major distinction is whether you will get your money back. 

In ownership investment there might be no such guarantee.

 A stock's price can go to zero. 

The loan investments are usually backed by the guarantee of the bank, corporation or the government. 

With the above distinctions in your mind try to figure out what you are invested in. 

Few examples are: 

• your bank account or Government bonds 
• loan investment stock or mutual fund
• ownership investment 

What should I invest in? 

Having too much investment in one type can be bad for the investor. Loan investments are unable to keep pace with inflation, you might have your money safe but the purchasing power goes down. Too much risk avoidance will result in less return. 

Similarly Ownership investments can leave you without a penny in your pocket. The Idea is to keep a balance between the two. 

Neither is in a category of good or bad or one better than the other investment rather they serve different needs.

 Needs which can vary from one person to the other depending on ones investment time horizon and risk appetite. 

Stocks and bonds complement each other. 

In case you are new to investing first check your risk appetite, needs and time horizon of investments to decide where you should put your money.

9 Diverse Types of Investment That Will Ensure Your Financial Future

I know almost all of the people in this world are concerned about their financial future. I don't know anyone who isn't. And if you're already a married man or woman, you will surely think of your kids who are going to college in the next few years. Some are also tired already of working. That's why most retire in an early age. I reckon they're just exhausted of their usual job. Who doesn't want to have an assurance that you will have a progressive financial life? No one, right? And I also know that you want to retire without brooding about your financial situation. 

Most people are like that. Unfortunately, there are also a lot of people who do not even know what to do with their hard-earned money. They do not know how to invest. They aren't aware that there are diverse types of investment. If all you know about saving your money is putting it in a piggy bank, hiding it somewhere in your cabinet, then you should really learn about the types of investment. There is actually 9 of it. The stocks, bonds, real estate, foreign currency, mutual funds/ETF's (Exchange Traded Funds), certificates of deposit, insurance and savings account are the types of investment that you could use. 

-Stocks are buying a portion of a company or corporation. You'll become a stockholder of that company. Thus, you have your own rights there. You can gain profit with this type of investment by receiving stock dividends from that corporation. Another way of gaining profit in this is to buy low-amount stocks and then sell it in a higher price. Stocks are also considered as Medium-risk investment. 

-On the other hand, investing in bonds is like loaning your money to the Government. Because of that, the risk in this type of investment is a lower risk investment. 

-Real estate investing is buying a property and then selling it in a higher price soon. Some real estate investors do not sell their property. They just use it for rental. That's why the flow of money to them is continuous but not that massive money like reselling it. In a buyer's market, it's better if you buy properties today and then re-sell it when the time changes into a seller's market. You can also buy REITS (Real Estate Investment Trusts) which is like buying property on the stock market as opposed to buying physical property.

 -Foreign currency or one of the types of investment in foreign exchange (FOREX) deals with currency trading market. It is always open and can be accessed through the use of internet. With this type of investment, you'll need to trade currency pairs for other currency pairs in the hope that you will trade for currency that has more value. 

-Regarding the mutual or Exchange Traded funds, when you invest in this, you include a variety of different investments, such as high-risk, long-term, short-term, stocks, Index funds, bonds, and the like. 

-Crypto currency is a high risk strategy. Bitcoin is the most known and a promising commodity. The upside is unknown and it is very speculative. Unless you are a high risk investor, ignore this type of asset class as the price is known to drop -80% in a short time and you need to be able to control your emotions, otherwise you will lose a lot of money.

-Certificates of Deposit, or CDs, are alike to savings accounts, except they pay better interest. The reason for the higher interest rate is simple: when you open a CD at your local financial institution, you agree to leave the money there for a set amount of time; generally, the shortest amount of time is six months, but you may agree to a term of one year, two years, or even five years. The longer you agree to keep the CD, the higher the interest rate. 

-Some people choose to use life insurance as an investment. Many policies have investment properties, and an insurance agent or financial advisor can help you choose which the right one is. 

-Savings accounts offer very little return. In fact, despite they are technically a form of investment, they barely qualify anymore. They are certainly a very good way to teach your kids the process of saving though. 

Those are just some of the diverse types of investment. 

You may also want to invest in a business. You can either invest in a company that's just starting up, an existing business that is for sale or creating your own business. 

4 Financial Accounts Every Woman Should Have

Life can be easier when you have the financial bases covered. See if you've got the right types of accounts to help you with cash needs, emergencies, and your long-term retirement. 

1. First, do you have a bank account and ATM card with your name on it? 

It doesn't matter if you share the account with a spouse or significant other. Just make sure your name is on the account, and that you have the ability to pay bills and withdraw money. Most of us take this checking privilege for granted, but it's the most basic money account we all need. 

2. Second, do you have an emergency fund? 

I like to call it comfort-cash. This should equal whatever you might need to get through unexpected hardships that crop up, from job losses to car breakdowns. 

When you're prepared with at least 4-6 months of living expenses, you're less likely to borrow from high-interest credit cards, or sell your retirement investments with penalties or losses. 

Where should you keep a comfort-cash fund? Put it in a high interest savings account. Yes I know, it doesn't pay much, but the key here is liquidity. You need to be able to get to those funds quickly when you need them. 

3. Third, do you have a major credit card in your name only? 

It's OK to share one credit card account with a spouse, but every woman should also have a different account with just her name on it. 

You want to make sure you're building your own financial identity, and that you are the only influence on that account. In case of a later divorce or loss of partner, you've got your own credit history and credit score established. 

If you don't qualify for a credit card with good terms yet, look into getting a secured credit card, backed by a savings account you set up when you apply. You prove you're responsible with paying off card debt, before moving to a standard, unsecured credit card. 

4. Fourth, do you have a retirement savings account in your name? 

This might be an employer plan at your workplace, or an Individual Retirement Account. Retirement accounts provide tax-deferred or tax-free savings, which grow faster without current taxation. 

If you don't have an employer retirement plan, but you do have earned income, open your own retirement account. If you're not working, agree your spouse contributes to your retirement future. These help build retirement accounts for a spouse who has low earnings, or is helping raise the kids at home. 

Don't make the mistake of assuming governments will cover all your needs. It wasn't meant to, and it won't. And while taxable savings are good, tax-advantaged retirement accounts are even better. 

How did you do? 

Don't worry if you lack one or two of these categories. But make a priority of establishing what you still need. You'll be setting up your own safety net, helping insure access to cash, and building financial security by owning these four accounts.

 

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Women Can Love Investing

Women can learn to love investing. Investing is a huge passion of mine. I find it empowering, freeing, and confidence building! You can learn to have your money work for you and make you money, so you're not dependent on working the rest of your life. It's awesome to see money being made with your computer and not from your work efforts! Once you learn to invest, it's like having your own golden goose. The golden goose provides more money for you over the years and works hard, so you don't have to.

Did you know women are better investors than men? There have been studies of men's and women's investment clubs and women consistently made more money with their investing. The reasoning is that women think through their investment decisions longer before selecting them and hold their investments longer.

Another reason women make good investors is because investing is like shopping. We're used to comparing prices, knowing brands, and watching for sales! Investing is the same way. You figure out what you want and you wait for a good price to buy it. You do that every week!

90% of women will have to manage their own money at some point in their lives (the average age of widowhood is 59). Do you want to learn about money when you're grieving and least able to deal with it or when you choose to?

Making money is simply a function of 3 things:

• the money you have to start with
• the time you have to compound 
• the rate you earn

The more of any of those 3 things you have, the easier it is. If you don't have a lot of money to start with, but you have a lot of years before you need the money, or you can compound (earn) a high rate, you can build wealth. 

If you want to learn how to swim, you can't cling to the side of the pool. Eventually you have to let go and try to swim. When you get good at swimming, you can eventually go into the deep end. You don't try that on the first day! It's the same thing with investing. If you want to build wealth, you can't keep your money in a savings account. You must give yourself time to learn to invest and let your money create a golden goose for you! 

The reason it's important to take some measured risk with your money, is because it allows you to get a higher return. For example, a savings account is paying 1% interest. At 1%, it will take 72 years to double your money. Not a great way to accumulate money to retire! But the stock market has returned 10% on average over the long-term, which will double your money in a little over 7 years! That will build wealth - the savings account won't - and you will be able to have a comfortable retirement. That's why you need to invest in stocks! 

I often hear women say they don't feel "worthy" of having a lot of money. I think this stems from the fact that women don't know their worth. Studies have shown that men know what they are worth in their job and women don't. Women are taught to be of service, to put our needs behind others, to be polite, to defer to others. If we translate that behavior to money, it means we won't feel worthy. We give the power away. We will have fears around it and "trust" others to handle it for us. We don't need to do that. Not anymore. 

I'm here to say women, you can do it! You can overcome your fear of loss or overwhelm. Investments don't require much time to manage once you've got the hang of it. I spend less than an hour a week handling my long term investments. More of my time is spent reading about investments and looking for new opportunities than tweaking the investments. 

I started in my late twenties with $0 (after paying off all my debts)and read lots of books about millionaires and investing. I taught myself how to invest in stocks and became a millionaire at age 38. The next year, I made $1 million in one year! I teach clients exactly the steps I took. It begins with having a wealthy mindset and ends with creating your legacy. Only one step involves investing! Did you know that you don't even have to have a lot of money to start investing? You can open an investment account online with only $500. There's no excuse not to learn! 

If you have a mentor, it can help take the fear of overwhelm away. A mentor can show you how to navigate easily, just like a tour guide can in a foreign country. Over time, you will gain confidence and realize it's not as difficult as you first thought. Like anything with practice, it gets easier - and the rewards are much better! You can learn to build serious wealth which will make your life a lot easier, less stressful, and give you a better marriage and family life. 

What is a stock? A "stock" is simply a share of ownership in a company (think of companies like your favorite brands in handbags, shoes, food, etc.). Companies sell shares of stock in their company when they want to raise money. Suppose up-and coming designer Tory Burch wanted to open boutiques around the world? She could sell shares in her company and raise the money to do that. The "stock market" is simply where lots of companies are selling shares. Initially they sell shares from their company to raise the money and from there investors buy and sell them to and from each other. It's kind of like eBay, except you're buying and selling shares of companies! 

But isn't it risky? Isn't it like gambling? There is risk, but you can mitigate risk several ways - buy spreading it out among multiple companies you own, by buying companies that have a low fluctuation of price, by not owning just stocks and adding in other types of investments. Some people speculate, but most people are not trying to "get rich quick", they are investing for the long-term, which is the safest way to invest. The longer you stay invested, the more likely it is you will make money with your investments. If you stayed invested during the crash of 2008, the stock market is up 80% from the low point. 

The Dalai Lama has said, "The Western woman will save the world." I believe that's true. Women are cooperative, intuitive, and we like to share with others. I see a lot of women giving to the less fortunate, like helping women start businesses with "micro" loans. The average loan someone in a foreign country needs to start a life-changing business to feed their family is only $27! The women in villages teach others in the village how to run a business, so the effects are far reaching and magnified. My mission is to change the statistics for women, where 1 in 5 of us are retiring with Zero dollars. 

Isn't it time you empowered yourself to learn about money and investing? Isn't it time you felt your own worth and independence? Learning to create wealth yourself will do that for you and investing is a way you can build a lot of wealth. You just have to decide to do it and find a mentor such as Femvestorsglobal to reduce the learning time and improve your success rate. 

Soon you will have your own golden goose and love investing too! 

Women and Money - Another Complicated Relationship

Yet another relationship we complicate with our emotions. 

According to statistics: 

• We women earn 20% less than our male counterparts 
• We earn 80 cents on the dollar compared with men
• We have less women sitting in corner offices
• We are not getting our fair share of the world's wealth

It is abundantly clear after research that many of the characteristics and behaviors of women that make us unique also contribute to our lack of financial independence. 

Our greatest gifts we offer to society actually become our greatest weaknesses when our own best interest come in to play. Just like with anything a belief system is a standard that sets the stage for our behaviors. 

How we earn money and manage it is no different. We are taught differently with societal messages that imply our well-being is contingent upon acting polite and other stereo-typical ways when we are young girls. 

Being relationship oriented and soft-spoken are just a couple of behaviors that we are taught and then struggle with when we later apply them to the management of income earned or inherited wealth.

 The expectations of: 

• being a mum 
• wife 
• caretaker of elderly parents 
• AND independent 

are a juggling act that conflicts with the logic of the risk-reward mentality that it often takes to manage money successfully. 

As Independent Ambitious Career Woman meets head on with Nurturing Caretaker Mother and Wife we truly are BLESSED with the impossible sounding feat, if we take on the right attitude and use it to our advantage. 

We are asked to sharpen our skills in so many areas that we cannot help but succeed if we learn how to apply all of these acquired skills in the area of money-management and income negotiation in the workplace. 

There appears to be a paradigm shift that needs to take place in many of our female minds. That shift may require taking on a new mantra that empowers you to realise you have been given a job that seems daunting but in actuality have been given the opportunity to have it all. 

The ability to give life and nurture it can be applied to making money and growing it. So, being a Sep-mother with an independent minded attitude I have had to change my mantra to fit my vision of a successful retirement. 

I believe that how you think determines how you act. Our actions stem from our belief system. Our belief systems were most likely formed at a very young age. We have to understand that we can change our belief systems by attaining correct knowledge and watching our actions. 

Some of the actions we can take as women are: 

1. Keep track of how you are using and losing your money

2. Create a spending plan

3. Always put minimum of 10% away in an investment or savings...

4. Consider learn from other women. Check out Femvestorsglobal.com. 

5. Take advantage of compounding interest rate calculator! Check out http://www.investor.gov

6. There are so many ways to start learning and never an easier time to acquire knowledge. What better way to use Google! 

How to Demonstrate Smart Financial Habits to Your Kids

Your kids will follow your example in many things that they do so it is important that you practice what you preach. How to demonstrate smart financial habits to your kids starts with this important understanding. Use the trust that is instinctively there between you and your kids and teach them the right way. 

Kids need to learn that money doesn't just fall from a tree, it is hard-earned and must be used wisely. Start by giving them an allowance based on their age and understanding. Make it a regular ritual and request for books to be read in exchange. Note the point I wrote about reading books and not chores. 

Chores are a part of life and NOT a paid task. If you pay your kids for chores, you are teaching your kids to be employees where they exchange time for money. If you pay your kids to read books, you enable them to expand their thinking and create an Entrepreneur mindset.

When it comes to payment for reading books, choose a day each fortnight or each month and hand over their 'pay packet' pocket money in an envelope addressed with your child's name. Show respect for the money. Ask them how their last allowance was spent so that you can get a handle on their spending habits. Get them to keep a little notebook as their 'spending account ledger'. 

Congratulate them if they are saving their money. Encourage this habit and you might even reward their habit of saving by giving them a small bonus to add to their account. Ask if they are saving for something special. If they are close to their goal and it is near a birthday you could make up the difference as part of their birthday gift. You'll know it's something special to them so it will be appreciated.

If your child does want something extra special expect, given them a book of your choice which will help them grow, a jigsaw puzzle, quiz.  Let them learn that money must be an exchange for an education and is not just available for any desire. They will learn to appreciate the things that they buy with their own money. 

Don't pamper to every whim of your child. Limit the gifts you give them and let them enjoy the gift given before allowing them to begin playing with another. Having too many at once will make them jump from one thing to another. Explain why they are not getting everything that they ask for. If they really want something that you have said no to explain why and that they must save for it themselves.

The key here is to limit the amount your child has to spend on Consumerism. Look at not only putting the money into a savings account but also teach them how to invest their savings in Index funds and stocks. I bought shares in Disney and presented this as a share certificate in a frame with their favorite character so they know they are a part owner of The Disney company as opposed to a toy they do not need.

It may not always seem like it but kids will listen to their parents so don't give in to their demands to keep up with their peers. Be firm...kids appreciate and respond to positive parenting. They need to know their boundaries. Explain why you do things but don't spoil everything by demonstrating the opposite to your kids. Instill smart financial habits in your kids and demonstrate smart habits yourself...don't blow it!

3 Top Secrets Wealthy Women Use to Overcome Barriers to Creating Financial Freedom

When women reach a certain age, they begin to ask the important questions: "What will my retirement look like? Will I be able to maintain a specific lifestyle? How will money affect my sense of security?" Women typically are so immersed in the present day-to-day activities that they are too exhausted to think beyond that. No, not all women, but a good amount to make a difference. 

What are the 3 big 'No-No's' that women find themselves doing that not only create barriers to financial success but actually prevent it from happening all together? 

1. Not planning early enough. How many times have you said, 'I'll start that tomorrow" but tomorrow never came? 

Financial Quick-Start: Map out your plan when you have your first experience with money. It's not too late, and it's never too early. Babysitting money, birthday money - it doesn't matter - map out your plan on how you will relate, save, spend and value the money that comes in and out of your life. Mothers, teach your daughters to become familiar and comfortable with money at an early age. The important piece is to start - your plan may change or grow, but it should be a plan that grows with you. 

Put money and credit in your own name. Money and credit in your name is a sure way to boost your sense of security. Don't be hesitant to do this. Be proud and excited about the greatness of establishing your own accounts and credit ratings. Start small with bank accounts and credit, then expand into investments. 

Putting money in your own name and knowing it is yours creates a feeling of security and independence. These two feelings build the foundation critical to living a financially independent life. 

2. Closing the door to knowledge. Women don't speak up or ask questions when the financial planner comes around (if they have one). They fear looking uneducated or embarrassed about not knowing much about money. Or there's an attitude of "it'll take care of itself."  

Financial Quick-Start: Read. Learn. Observe. Listen. Hire a financial planner. Get in the game. Expose yourself to several opinions on financial matters. Pretend you know what you are doing and the more you do it, the more you will learn. There is no shame in grabbing the money-lion by the tail and taking charge. 

Learn what will make you money AND know what wastes your money. Read, read, and read again. There are great books out there for you to learn about money decisions, investing, income streams, and financial planning. Set a priority to grow your money enough to allow you to meet with a professional planner, accountant or someone you feel safe in asking questions and learning where to start. 

The main purpose of knowing everything about your money is for you to make informed and responsible money decisions that will help your financial future instead of hurting it. 

3. The "I-couldn't-handle-money-if-I-tried" thinking. This is thinking that will land you in the poor house. Actually, this is a defence mechanism designed to shield you from knowing the truth. The truth may be good, bad or ugly, but it's still the truth. And sometimes knowing the truth around your money can be scary. 

Financial Quick-Start: Grow your confidence. To grow money, you have to feel good about it. And to do that, you must get in touch with your money. When control goes up, worry goes down. When worry goes down, security goes up and so does confidence. This means balancing your finances on a regular basis, knowing your rental or mortgage agreement at all times, opening and paying all bills on time, and reading your quarterly retirement planning reports. 

You should expect more than the crumbs falling off the table. But, gosh, you say, I have too many bills. Well, make a budget (aka spending plan) and stick to it. Sacrifice whatever is expendable (eating out, movie tickets, that cool smelling bottle of perfume) so you can get yourself into a power position with your money. 

Decide what you can pay yourself each month then do it - no matter what! Start with 10% after taxes but no less than 5%. Before you know it, the dollars you are paying to yourself will start to add up! 

The main purpose of paying yourself first is so you learn that you are more important and deserving than anything you could buy.

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